Sometimes we concentrate too much on causes and consequences, without out any regard to the moment.... that's the way most of us have been living. I did.
The problem starts when you start to pin way too many things on future. Future is mystic and our every grand plan materializes only in future !!!..This way we loose our present and In the whole process, we search for answers in our past. I don't why we rely so much on future, that i'll do this and that....why I'm not doing those thing now?? This attitude is so infectious that once you got infected, you will be bogged down by it for a long time....I guess its safe to term it as "Loser Phenomena"( LP)....pathetic but very genetic!!
I brainstormed for many days to find the exact relation between "what I want", "what I deserve" and "what I get". I guess the root cause of whole problem is due to misplaced importance given to above three factors.
Factor 1:" What I want" always tends to infinity.
Factor 2: "What I deserve" is an exponential function which always tends to zero, when Factor 1 reaches its upper limit
Factor 3 : "What I get" well this factor is dependent on so many external factors that virtually it has no relation with above two factors.
Empirical Relation Between Different Factors
Okay enough of maths, well I don't know whether this relation makes any sense....well i see some resonance when it comes to me...i had LP and it left me empty and shallow. LP results into loss of faculty of judging people.....and you end up being loner. The cure for this "future fantasy" is almost non-existent.
I guess realizing the very fact that I live more in future then present took almost four years and i learned through hard way...getting hit by a meteor shower....loss of hope, blackout and wounded....Trying hard to get over it.... :) :) :)
It's a pretty good theory....hopefully the factor 1 changes to finite n factor 2 reach it......
ReplyDeleteWell i absolutely loved the theory and how u in the most simplest way explained such a complicated task ! ..
ReplyDeleteThe hardest way would have been if u had known already what the future holds for you and still got no choice to escape it !...
The trois factors that you have mentioned... let them be complicated and at times subtle !... seriously u wud never wanna question any of the above big dark questions!...
Havin a balanced relationship with the future is good !.. but all that we are here at the moment of today is all that matters!.. thats the first compromise of the life... and there more to come.. haaah.. nevermind .. now is the time to rejoice and just have some awesomeness to dwell into ! :)
ps: you would be and excellent teacher! a 'wow' on the graph !
@harsha: he he factor1 is what which makes us different from any other form of life on earth..It drives us..destroys others..
ReplyDelete@noopur: ha ha teacher!!...I agree being awesome is the call of the hour :):)
ReplyDeleteMan u get the point like a bullet in my head !! Its good and yaa usually we learn things the very hard way.. :(
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